Another November Update
I’ve got a few updates as well as some new information to share. If you are new to my site, thanks for stopping by! You can find a medical synopsis here: Cancer History
As I mentioned in my previous post, I had the fluid around my lung drained a few weeks ago. Unfortunately, it came back rather quickly. As soon as insurance approves it, I will be having this procedure again. The procedure is rather uncomfortable. After some numbing shots, a tube is inserted from my back, between the last two ribs, into the lung sac. Immediately after the procedure, my right lung was sore. Sore like a sore throat, if you can imagine that. Kind of weird. Then I had two, not-so-common side effects. First, my lung and the sac began rubbing against each other which has a slight grinding sound. The rubbing causes inflammation which in turn causes pain. Second, a nerve became inflamed and sent shooting pains into my shoulder and abdomen. Both issues have lessened but not resolved. So now I’ve got the uncomfortable fluid in the lung as well as the side effects! You might wonder why I would want to get it drained again at this rate. The fluid causes a lot of pressure and it also causes my blood oxygen rate to drop, so it’s important to try to get rid of it again.
When a person has stage four cancer, their primary cancer is growing in other parts of the body. One of the places my breast cancer is growing is in my skin. The skin lesions have grown recently which indicates that my current medicines have stopped working. In the next few weeks I will be switched from endocrine therapy to something called Piqray. As the oncologist was explaining Piqray to me she mentioned that it caused diabetes. I asked how many of her patients who take it have developed diabetes to which she answered, “all of them.” Honestly I was floored. I have never heard of such of thing. I really don’t want another disease! This little tidbit of information has been quite hard for me to digest. For those of you who are against or hesitant about western cancer medicines, I’m sure you think this is crazy! I agree! However, it is the only medicine being offered to me at this point, so I’m going to give it a try. After this medicine, there is one more I can try. I’m tempted to skip the Piqray and go straight to the other one, but after thinking about it, it seems best to try both. Sometime in December I will go to a class on diabetes and then start the new medication. My doctor says I can probably manage the diabetes without insulin, so that’s good. I don’t think I’m naturally someone who will be great at checking my blood sugar on a schedule, eat on a schedule, etc., so I’ll need to figure all of that out.
I’ve also been having a lot of issues with my neck and the base of my skull where I have some cancerous bone lesions. I get pain, a “buzzing” sound, headaches, etc. I’ve found that if I don’t move my head too much it helps. So if I look kind of stiff, you’ll know why!
Having mentioned the term “western medicine” above, I think I’ll talk about my philosophy on medicine for a minute. I am using everything that western medicine has to offer me. I understand people’s concerns about some of these therapies/modalities. In fact, I share many of the concerns, but also am willing to give them a try for lack of other options. I am additionally using/have used a fair amount of natural remedies though I don’t talk about them much. I will say that people kindly offer me natural/homeopathic remedies almost daily. I research most of them and have implemented some. It’s super hard navigating all of this though for multiple reasons. I have had more than a few loved ones die soon after trying extreme natural treatment plans. (To be fair, they were very sick when they started the plans.) I have, of course, also known people who have died from cancer who did not not try any natural treatments. It’s hard to know what route to take. To complicate things even further, each natural clinic or treatment plan seems to be different from the next, making it even harder to figure out. I had some experiences as a young person that have given me pause and kept me from jumping head first into, really, anything medically speaking. Honestly, I think I can say, I don’t really, fully believe in any of it. Rather I want to trust in God and do my best with what I have. My trust is not in any one doctor or any one prescription or any one natural remedy.
I know this post is getting long, but I’ll share some of the aforementioned experiences with you anyway. :)
The first experience had to do with my mom who had a long fight with cancer which ended when she was 53 and I was 17. She fought hard. She was not okay with dying. She tried everything her doctors offered and let me tell you, in the 1980s, that was some crazy stuff. Her cancer kept coming back more aggressively. As she worsened she decided to go away for a while to a homeopathic cancer center where she was put on a strict diet, did daily coffee and wheat grass enemas, went through talk therapy and more. I don’t know where she got the money to go there, but she was a fighter and somehow she made it happen. I saw a big decline in her health after going to this place and she died soon after. Personally, I think it was too radical for the state she was in at the time. Maybe it would have been more helpful if she had gone sooner, but who knows.
The other experience wasn’t about medicine, but faith, and in a way, “treatment.” It involved a relative who was dying of cancer being told that if they had more faith they would be healed. When this beautiful woman died, I felt so sad knowing that she may have thought, as she was dying, that she didn’t have enough faith. Almost as soon as humans were created, death became imminent. It is part of life as we know it. I do not long to die. I don’t feel ready. I will use the tools given me to try to live as long as possible. However, I do also know that we will all die. I believe heaven will be a wonderful place to be and that is a comfort.
As I’ve read many cancer patients posts and blogs in the past few years, I’ve come to think we are all trying our best, in our own ways, with the tools we have available.
I feel so weird writing all these things out. I don’t want to sound like a know it all. It can be hard to let the world know my personal stuff. I don’t want to be insensitive to others. I don’t want to seem self-aggrandizing. The doubts go on and on. Then, I remind myself how helpful it is for me to read other people’s life stories and I hesitatingly push, “publish”, letting my life story go out into the world wide web with a hope and a prayer.
2 Corinthians 4:18 So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
