February 2023
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Phew! A lot has been going on!!! As I mentioned, I have a new doctor who is located at City of Hope, Duarte, which is about an hour from hour house. With this change comes lots of tests, new meds and many, many appointments for the time being. Thankfully, this schedule will mellow out in another month or so. I think that the level of care I am getting is outstanding. There is a tangible advantage to going to a huge campus that specializes only in cancer which I hadn’t foreseen. Let me give an example. Cancer patients get sent to lots of doctors. If I am having chest pain, my last oncologist would have sent me to a local cardiologist. I could pick my own or she could recommend one. Next, we would call the office only to be told there are no appointments available for months. Then the oncologists office would call the office and try to jockey for a closer appointment, usually successfully. After these gymnastics, I would go to said excellent cardiologist, who does not specialize in cancer patients, and they would be a bit flummoxed at my scans. At City of Hope Duarte main campus, they have cardiologists (and every other kind of doctor) and these physicians only see cancer patients. Their specialized knowledge is so wonderful! Also, all appointments are made for the patient… no calling around trying to find available appointments! They also have state of the art equipment.
In the past few weeks, besides seeing my oncologist, getting my lung drained again, having several MRIs, several PET CT scans, having an ECHO and a liver biopsy, I also started chemotherapy! I had been hoping to never say that phrase again in my life, but I am. This medicine is a new type of chemo that has such good results for some people that I decided to give it a shot. Enhertu is a four hour infusion that I will receive every three weeks. My first infusion was January 29 and the next is February 17. I may or may not get really sick. I may or may not have lung issues. I may or may not lose weight. I may or may not lose my hair. You can guess for yourself which ones I want and which ones I don’t want! With the first dose I felt really, really sick for one day and a little sick for a few days. My hair is not thinning yet. So… that’s a good start to this med! Hopefully it will continue on in a similar way.
In the midst of this crazy schedule, we got some bad news when my scans came back. After being more or less stable for more than a year, my cancer load increased quite a bit since the scans from November. Things that had calmed down are now active again. There are new lymph nodes with cancer. The spots in my lungs have grown. Most concerning is a new 3” by 1” growth on the surface of my liver touching my gallbladder. This is what I had biopsied today to see if it is same kind of cancer or perhaps a different kind. (It probably is the same.) We got this news about a week ago and have been processing it. We are hoping the new chemo will attack this. I will have scans again in early May.
In the next week or two I’m going to get a picc line and a PleurX inserted. A picc line is sort of a semi-permanent needle that makes infusions and blood draws much easier. Currently these things are a bummer for me. They usually use my hand or wrist and they really have to dig because I have damaged veins. A PleurX is a semi-permanent tube that will be coming out of my side to manually drain the fluid on my lung as needed. This is something I “get” to do myself! Both of these devices are a bit of a bummer in my mind because they are visible reminders of being sick. They also need special care, so they can be a bit limiting. Neither one is terrible though. Actually they will make my life easier.
This month I was able to get away with my husband, brother and sister-in-law to a place where I could really relax. It was wonderful. I spent hours and hours in a body-temperature hot spring. I also made it to the wedding that I was hoping to go to, where I got to see lots of friends, which was a true blessing.
I realized the other day that in June we will have been at this for two years! I sense that my loved ones are worn out. They are helpful, cheerful, giving and loving, but tired I think. It’s hard for me to see them like this. It’s hard for them to see me like this. I think this trial is strengthening us all, but it’s still hard. I’m thankful that I get to see my immediate family, extended family and friends often. I have a wonderful community, but the fatigue is palpable. Thank you for remembering us in your prayers. I get so many encouraging texts and notes. Last month I wrote a bit about how life is beautiful and HARD! If you missed that post, you can find it here: Rejoicing & Mourning
Thanks for checking in, AGAIN! I hope these posts are helpful or informative or encouraging or something!!!
